The sign features an illustration of the familiar male and female gender symbols common on bathroom signs, but this one has the male symbol lifting up the skirt of the female symbol.
I understand the humor of it. Really, I do. And I get that there was surely zero evil intent in its display at a Colorado pizza restaurant.
But in this day and age and in this sensitive climate of #MeToo, in which women and men have felt empowered to share their stories of being sexually victimized, it’s difficult for me to imagine installing such a sign if I owned a public restaurant.
I guess I’ve seen enough complaints and accusations from people on social media that my mind would automatically assume the worst outcome before I’d ever post the sign.
The possible furor behind such a sign, however, goes back well before the #MeToo social media campaign. Consider stories about transgender bathroom bills that have sought to allow transgender people the option to use the restroom based on the gender with which they identify, not the gender into which they were born. The backlash for these kinds of proposals included accusations that men, for example, could feign a feminine identity just to have the opportunity to spy on unsuspecting women in the women’s restroom.
There’s a real fear there, irrational as it may seem to others. I’d think people would decide for themselves that it’s no laughing matter.
Critics have gone so far as to suggest the sign promotes sexual assault. I think that’s going a bit far, too. There’s a big difference between humorously depicting something and promoting it. Perhaps those critics have never heard of editorial cartoons.
Patrick is a Christian with more than 26 years experience in professional writing, producing and marketing. His professional background also includes social media, reporting for broadcast television and the web, directing, videography and photography. He enjoys getting to know people over coffee and spending time with his dog.