Saturday, February 17, 2018

Would You Be Offended By a Fake Diamond Engagement Ring?

A lesser-known diamond substitute out there could cut the cost of a pricey engagement ring by as much as 90%. But would you be happy with that?

Have you ever heard of Moissanite? It’s a substance that’s said to look just like a diamond but can slash the price tag of an engagement ring. Just think: you could free up more money for the wedding, the honeymoon, or anything else.

The Penny Hoarder recently mentioned the substance and told its story. Their article states diamonds register a 10 on the Mohs scale of mineral hardness. Moissanite, however comes in at a close 9.25. And in terms of brilliance, the refractive index of moissanite is actually higher than a diamond’s. That means the impersonator has more “fire” than a diamond.

It also refers to a diamond engagement ring priced at $3,344 and a look-alike ring with moissanite that costs just under $880.

It’s an attractive substitute…especially for the groom. But what about the bride?

Ladies, would you accept a fake diamond engagement ring?

Saving 90% on anything sounds like a winning deal. But when it comes to an engagement ring, would you feel the same way?

If you’re the ultra-practical type, I can easily imagine you going along with a plan for moissanite instead of diamonds.

I just heard the other day that the average wedding now costs something in the order of $35,000, an amount I just can’t wrap my brain around. Maybe you’d be perfectly willing to accept a ring most people probably would never know wasn’t a diamond if you could cut the outrageous wedding cost.

But is that an acceptable trade-off?

Would it make a difference if you found out later that the diamond wasn’t a diamond?

It’s one thing if you and your hubby-to-be discussed the purchase of a moissanite engagement ring before the purchase. But what if you didn’t? What if your fiancé presented you with an engagement ring that you loved but neglected to tell you that he’d saved a not-so-small fortune on the ring?

Let’s suppose he still took the savings and put it toward your wedding — or even a down-payment on your first home. But if you later found out what you assumed was a diamond was actually something artificial, would it bother you? If you never asked if the diamond was real, would you be upset that he didn’t volunteer that information?

How much is a lower price for a piece of jewelry you’ll presumably wear for the rest of your life really worth?

I’d love to hear your thoughts on this. Leave me a comment!

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Patrick is a Christian with more than 26 years experience in professional writing, producing and marketing. His professional background also includes social media, reporting for broadcast television and the web, directing, videography and photography. He enjoys getting to know people over coffee and spending time with his dog.